It had been a few days since I wrote another post again. I thought that some season in my life has been really over the rainy days and dark time seems revisited me with new kind of twist. I do know that this phase of life I can pass through this time. It is not easy! Until…

This Sunday, It’s Interesting Outlook on The Dark and Daylight. I can really take deep lessons from it. See I do not know if you notice that our life has cycle. That cycle can put us on the TOP and DOWN time. So what’s so important about our cycle of life? Before I get to that… Let’s see what CYCLE that I am talking about and why should we be really understand it.

Our life consists of many aspects like Physical, Emotional, Relationship, Finance, Spiritual and keeping balance to get all 5 main aspects is not and easy job! seriously I had been long enough to endure the cycle some of us while we are young we do not understand why things happen and for what reason.

I reminisce the time when I am not on my peak condition, it is a time where I feel I am alone and only time that can bring me to pass and show me there is a glimpse of ray of hope that can make me smile again.
I am talking about the time when I had only U$30 in my bank account and I realize that I had to do something with it again. I never like how that felt but I assuredly can say that was not an easy time to understand. I need the cash to make me survived the daily living cost. I had a few moment like this similar like back in 1998 and around 2003.

Nothing was right in my life but I persist and got through that dark tunnel of my life. Another time of mine, was when I decided how my love life (yeah, I do fall in love). I do not know why this part seems so important other than money but now I know that we are not a creature who made to be single all the time. We need to partner with somebody who ready to support your vision in life and make it to the next level of dating called relationship then take matters into serious hand called “marriage”.

Nope, I am not into marriage stage but I do realize that things happen for reason and sometime those dark times make us realize nothing can be done much unless we really take time to reflect and stay still. For me it’s getting connected to higher power that I called GOD. I am a believer yeah I am, my life has never been the same but also am a man who can fail.

Tough times or Bad Times Happen To Good People or Person That You Care So Much. But life is not always sad or down all the time. You need to actually understand that when a person is in stage of darkness, we all longing for a new ray of light in our life. That ray of light make us see the best in us near future time. Your current situation may not be the best situation to go through at the moment. But keep on having new better vision and future and I know you will pass through it.

Here is what certain in life “Death” nothing can be more certain but that’s later after we finished our greater purpose why we are here. In life other things that are certain are like “People Come and Go in Your Life”, “Door Of Opportunity Knocks In or Closed For You” “Breathing Fresh Air or Drowning In Some Conflicts” and more to that. Come and Go, Open and Close, Breathe In and Breathe Out, Put On and Put Down, Sun Rise and Sunset. More you can add some cycle that happens repetitively in your life. You can not avoid this but you can learn how to use and enjoy each cycle.

It is like enlightenment in my time, when I had someone who is so closed and ready to lay down your life then she left me was not an easy time. Truly learning to be committed and accepting her decision was something that I have to respect. I know I had to struggle with time of my singlehood, relationship that has been nurtured for the past 30 months gone ashtray. As one of us stopped fighting and gone for some other new life venture, which was not really my choice. I tried to fight it back and rebuilt it. But what’s been broken sometimes become a monument to remind me that I have had to learn it.

I’ve had to close a lot of chapter in my life and what I endured was not easy, I still struggle through it like eating the bitter pill I know I had to go through this stage so I can be a grown up man. This was the darkest time in my life. Being a responsible man who take charge of his destiny and fight the fate is a big job!

Making it to the end, I see a ray of hope now. I get better now after a heavy damaged shocked situation. I will never learn to walk on my next two feet if I never had to crawl before. I will never learn to be grateful of what I have until I lost it. Sometimes unheard cry is the best therapy of your life in state of darkness. No one listen to it, except God. Why God sit and do nothing?

Actually He is there.. when friends come and give you word of encouragement (that’s God way of saying how much He cares). When you got a pat in the back and they tell you to get up again, or the whole new perspective of life that you got that’s a wisdom that you should enjoy it more and more. I thank for the new ray of hope that shone my life and changed me to become a better person and bigger heart and fight life to next level.

In conclusion, dark times is the time where time seems so long and get so toughed. Hang on the new ray of hope is there to build you up and make you a better person. During this time, discovering and enjoying the process is the best way. Nothing can be done more except sowing goodness to your current situation. helping people and what they need: attention, energy, monetarily

daylight times is the time where you feel the joy comes in the morning and fresh air of hope and you see that you can go through the tough times without understand why is it there for you. Also it is a time of reaping, you will see how every aspects of your life get in line and becoming one fine line that you can walk on it and jump on it.

Men’s Life Cycle has to endure the best of both times to understand truly what life is. I know that when I am in my low time, I want to fly higher till I forget how low I am. When I am in sad, I want to be happy. When I am worries I know that I have assurance that my life is safe and time is the one that makes me see it. When I am sick I know I want to be healed through times and love.

I can never say enough how I love the life that is bestow upon me, once I understand this I am ready to fight to get out of my darkness and reach the light. Have Faith for Greater Glory!

Never Never Give Up On Life! Learn From Your Down Time and Get Up Again! Be Awesome !Enjoy The Process and Celebrate The Event …Your Internet Buddy, Dee Ferdinand

In my journey as Internet Business Owner, the single popular word in online business world is called “Internet Marketing”

When I learned and researched about this is interesting how a lot of people perceive it. In my own terms from what I see Internet marketing is a technique on how to market a product or service to mass online. The technique is used by every company that sells from tangible goods, retails, lottery, gambling, adult novelty, lifestyle goods. From service like car repair, dentist, copy writing, graphic design, audio voice over, and many more. As you can see that Internet has become a lifestyle and marketing in general is what required from every company to master.

Internet Marketing (IM) is a range of technique from market research, understanding AIDA and SWOT, problem solving, then in practice doing keyword research, SEO, creating product that helps market, bring traffic, build customer interest list. These are part of the Internet Marketing in General.

IM is not Network Marketing. Network Marketing is kinda different, I don’t really quite comfortable with the idea a company just pay us after we made our referring sale that we are paid small amount after we made 2 sale or 4 sale. It is just ridiculous.
The company needs you! and if they say you don’t work for a 9 to 5 day job. I can say that you work indefinite time for this MLM or network marketing company. And the compensation plan is not any better than your 9 to 5 day job.

I do not have problem with Network Marketing / MLM but when they come to the scene and acknowledge themselves as an Internet Marketing that’s what totally wrong and misconception. I can tell you that Internet Marketing is a techinque or like a methodology for one to market on the world wide web. Let’s see how does Internet Marketing in general do their practice

Internet Marketing in genereal target certain group that has interest which most of the time is like Make Money Online, Work From Home, Home Business, Online Entrepreneur, Stay At Home Dad, Working Mom at Home. Once a person or a company understand the common problem of what’s out there for this certain market group. They can offer solution by offering the relevant information then they come about creating product (Product Creation Stage) from here a few stuff is being developed hiring a copywriter, graphic designer, sales letter copywriter. The next part is to setup a being or identity (find a good domain name, reliable hosting) and upload all the necessary material.

The key to these whole product promotion is being able to drive traffic to your product /service website and build it consistently.

The other important factor is product / service delivery. What kinda product they get and also how long does it take to get into the hand of your customer. And gaining feedback. Roll the process over and over.. it is the same like conventional business but the different you do it online

I got a lot of bad review about the new will smith’s movie a heroic figurine called “Hancock”.
But I always want to watch movie with bad review but got big budgeted. so I decided to go watch it tonight.

What’s interesting no one knows why the title is called Hancock but if you quick enough then you must have heard a big insurance company called “John Hancock“. Okay this movie is not about insurance but I think the message about this movie is more important than how you want to see the end. After the Iron Man and Incredible Hulk, Hancock can be a let down if you wished your superhero to play another sequel or trilogy.

Do check out the trailer here from the movie itself:

I do think that will smith is the right person to play this character other guy could be nicholas cage or edward norton. But will has proved himself that he is identical to heroine character. Interesting to see that
he did not show as a stable person emotionally and always try to get away with booze or pet (if you still remember the move ” I am Legend”).

The morale of the story is simple “Anyone can make a change from a bad start”. From a drunken, irresponsible, careless, and selfish personality. Hancock has made himself a bad reputation from time to time. He forgot his true purpose as a Hero he needs to maintain stability and also not bring another problem
to the town which is Los Angeles.

I could say more that Hancock is a person who realize his potential but got attitude problem or he is running away from being responsible for his own life and just care on how things are done on him. Until he met a PR for himself who believed in him and taught him to be a better person. He still deals with insecurities in himself not knowing what his true purpose, where he got his power and what is his past has made him a confusing personality.

Interesting enough Hancock reflects our inner potential. We may not have superhero power but we are all here with a purpose, and responsibility to take charge of our destiny. Your destiny can bring positive or negative impact to people surround you. Hancock did realize that he need help, that’s where the new outlook and new vision of him started to take place.

I do want to say that our life journey if seems meaningless, we need to find the real goals and purpose in our life. Hancock found out the truth on who is and his bigger purpose after a few struggle. Is not even easy for him after all the bad things but he can end it nicely to write a new history and live a life full of purpose.

The other thing is that at the end he is being unselfish and aim for bigger purpose and sacrifice the one that he truly care. Can you guess what it is ? I do hate to spoil the rest of the movies but I do suggest if you don’t catch it at your nearest cinema. Hire or Buy the DVD, I am sure you will be entertained much.

If you happen to browse the J. Hancock site then you will find this interesting mission statement here

“At John Hancock, we are here to help you plan for your future so you can realize your promises. Created as a life insurance company, John Hancock has since broadened its products and services to become a leading provider of financial services, delivering the products you need to create the future you desire.”

Hancock the movie show that one person can create the future his desire by making massive and extreme change in his life. And even he can do it alone… you need people to help you reach that. I hope people in John hancock realize this I am bringing some traffic to them ( my main purpose is to share you the moral of the movie)

The original title of this video interview called “The Donald Interviews the Kids”

Two kids from previous marriage with Ivana Trump has created 2 amazing next business man and business woman. I love the apprentice show, I tried to find the interview where both the Donald’s kids were being interviewed on how they were raised. They are not the Hilton or any rich kid spoiled. I like what Donald has to teach his kids to inherit his legacy and his big empire. It requires the right kind of the people.

I am watching which I think the fifth season of Apprentice in California, Los Angeles. The first episode was very interesting as there is no trump tower only the mansion and the team that loses stay in tent. It is like the battle of status and dignity.

Anyway.. I do want to show how Donald also being interviewed by his kids about choosing project and his judgement can effect the result.

And the next video how Donald interview the kids asking their opinions what makes them who they are and how they are managed to be such a great business minds. I do like the idea that Donald has a way in teaching the kids not to be spoiled and ask them to grow and stretch a lot without using the advantage.

The Donald Interview The Kids

I feel very obliged to share a lot of insight about making the right decisions in life.
Is never easy. Your right decision can make you in bigger problem than what you already have.
Your right decision can lead you to loss a lot of friends.
Your right decision can be the determining factor that a lot of people can be against you.
Your right decision can be the one single element that makes difference between failure and success.

Let’s assume you have made the right decision than the result was not like you expected. It was a total
failure. What can you do? I’d suggest change your strategy. A lot of people making a decision based
on current situation. Have you ever turned the table around? What do I mean?

Have you ever made decision based on result ? Whatever result you want to get you made your decision that can achive the result that you have set. A lot of us walking in the journey of life flow, whatever will be then will it be. It creates our life as a creature of circumstances, we do not take control of the process and event in our life but rather we are becoming victims.

We blamed our current situation as we become a victims of our own decisions. We tend to blame others for our failures. It’s funny when everything goes wrong we tend to blame but when everything goes right or smooth we forget the people that has helped us getting there.

How about if you were born in challenging situation ? Challenging financial situation, disability, racial discrimination, unwanted born by your natural parents. Can you still change your future ? Yes, there is no doubt to it. But is not easy, also nothing is impossible.

Norman Vincent Peale shared something so powerful, he has a very profound quote:

“People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success.”

First secret of sucess. Is to change your thinking then believe in the new changed thinking. And make decision and taking action based on the new thinking.

Have you ever felt that you started with a lot of challenges? I have had that experience when I started my entrepreneurial journey it was one of the lowest time in my life emotionally. But I kept on targeting on what I wanted in life. I do see a dot of hope that I can actually approach further and see that I am getting closer to my target of what I wanted in life.

Carl Bard is pretty unknown for his inspirational quote but read here:

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”

The famous philanthropist, TV talk show host “Oprah Winfrey” did not start his life smoothly based on abused and all that she should have ended up become a wreck. But she did something in her past that has made her a very fortunate person that can help and inspire others for better life. Her interesting quote:

“Every day brings a chance for you to draw in breath, kick off your shoes and dance.”

Most of us stay where we are in comfort zone, if something not happening that means we fail to realize and take action. Bryon Pulsifer says this:

“You will never reach your goal until you start to take action, any action.”

I do like what I have seen in the life of people who were not starting right but ending as champion.
Olga Korbut has one of interesting quote about life where I categorized this as “Pushing to the limit / persistence”

“Don’t be afraid if things seem difficult in the beginning. That’s only the initial impression. The important thing is not to retreat; you have to master yourself.”

Therefore my friend, do think about how you want it to be in your life, make the right decisions to reach that goal in life that you always want it.

If you want to become a millonaire start learning about what does it take to be a millionaire, if you want to be a tycoon’s wife. Learn how to act, speak and think big as any tycoon wife has always behind the succesful tyconn. If you plan to change the world, start change your surrounding. Or if you want to invent something, start experiment today. If you happen to want people to appreciate you as who you are. Appreciate them today before you ask them to do it.

Life is an exciting journey. Let’s push through to the end as a champ!

Have we ever thought “Why We Do What We Do in Life?”

Interestingly enough we do something because we give meaning to something and focus on to it. What happens in our life today because of the decisions in our past. We set our course to make our future like today.

Often times, we all feel we did something in our life and achieved it but still feeling unsatisfied, why is that? Is because we don’t really give meaning to something. That’s what happen by the terms taking things for granted.

We need to contribute more in order to make our life much more meaningful, we have to do something that we love or passionate about, then we see it is more meaningful once we achieve it.

I like to share two videos one is a very important 8 elements of success that I want you to see it. I know we all love to be success in every aspects of our life.

The 8 important elements are:
1. Passion
2. Work
3. Practice
4. Focus
5. Push
6. Serving
7. Idea
8. Persist

These simple 8 steps are what makes the road to success is even more achievable.
I want to share this powerful 3 minutes video and 21 minutes of talk by Anthony Robbins whom reminds me of the lessons that I took through one of his training.

Video #1 Richard St. John - 8 Secrets of Success

Video #2 - Anthony Robbins “Why Do What We Do & How To Make It Better”

Enjoy these 2 awesome videos