It had been a few days since I wrote another post again. I thought that some season in my life has been really over the rainy days and dark time seems revisited me with new kind of twist. I do know that this phase of life I can pass through this time. It is not easy! Until…

This Sunday, It’s Interesting Outlook on The Dark and Daylight. I can really take deep lessons from it. See I do not know if you notice that our life has cycle. That cycle can put us on the TOP and DOWN time. So what’s so important about our cycle of life? Before I get to that… Let’s see what CYCLE that I am talking about and why should we be really understand it.

Our life consists of many aspects like Physical, Emotional, Relationship, Finance, Spiritual and keeping balance to get all 5 main aspects is not and easy job! seriously I had been long enough to endure the cycle some of us while we are young we do not understand why things happen and for what reason.

I reminisce the time when I am not on my peak condition, it is a time where I feel I am alone and only time that can bring me to pass and show me there is a glimpse of ray of hope that can make me smile again.
I am talking about the time when I had only U$30 in my bank account and I realize that I had to do something with it again. I never like how that felt but I assuredly can say that was not an easy time to understand. I need the cash to make me survived the daily living cost. I had a few moment like this similar like back in 1998 and around 2003.

Nothing was right in my life but I persist and got through that dark tunnel of my life. Another time of mine, was when I decided how my love life (yeah, I do fall in love). I do not know why this part seems so important other than money but now I know that we are not a creature who made to be single all the time. We need to partner with somebody who ready to support your vision in life and make it to the next level of dating called relationship then take matters into serious hand called “marriage”.

Nope, I am not into marriage stage but I do realize that things happen for reason and sometime those dark times make us realize nothing can be done much unless we really take time to reflect and stay still. For me it’s getting connected to higher power that I called GOD. I am a believer yeah I am, my life has never been the same but also am a man who can fail.

Tough times or Bad Times Happen To Good People or Person That You Care So Much. But life is not always sad or down all the time. You need to actually understand that when a person is in stage of darkness, we all longing for a new ray of light in our life. That ray of light make us see the best in us near future time. Your current situation may not be the best situation to go through at the moment. But keep on having new better vision and future and I know you will pass through it.

Here is what certain in life “Death” nothing can be more certain but that’s later after we finished our greater purpose why we are here. In life other things that are certain are like “People Come and Go in Your Life”, “Door Of Opportunity Knocks In or Closed For You” “Breathing Fresh Air or Drowning In Some Conflicts” and more to that. Come and Go, Open and Close, Breathe In and Breathe Out, Put On and Put Down, Sun Rise and Sunset. More you can add some cycle that happens repetitively in your life. You can not avoid this but you can learn how to use and enjoy each cycle.

It is like enlightenment in my time, when I had someone who is so closed and ready to lay down your life then she left me was not an easy time. Truly learning to be committed and accepting her decision was something that I have to respect. I know I had to struggle with time of my singlehood, relationship that has been nurtured for the past 30 months gone ashtray. As one of us stopped fighting and gone for some other new life venture, which was not really my choice. I tried to fight it back and rebuilt it. But what’s been broken sometimes become a monument to remind me that I have had to learn it.

I’ve had to close a lot of chapter in my life and what I endured was not easy, I still struggle through it like eating the bitter pill I know I had to go through this stage so I can be a grown up man. This was the darkest time in my life. Being a responsible man who take charge of his destiny and fight the fate is a big job!

Making it to the end, I see a ray of hope now. I get better now after a heavy damaged shocked situation. I will never learn to walk on my next two feet if I never had to crawl before. I will never learn to be grateful of what I have until I lost it. Sometimes unheard cry is the best therapy of your life in state of darkness. No one listen to it, except God. Why God sit and do nothing?

Actually He is there.. when friends come and give you word of encouragement (that’s God way of saying how much He cares). When you got a pat in the back and they tell you to get up again, or the whole new perspective of life that you got that’s a wisdom that you should enjoy it more and more. I thank for the new ray of hope that shone my life and changed me to become a better person and bigger heart and fight life to next level.

In conclusion, dark times is the time where time seems so long and get so toughed. Hang on the new ray of hope is there to build you up and make you a better person. During this time, discovering and enjoying the process is the best way. Nothing can be done more except sowing goodness to your current situation. helping people and what they need: attention, energy, monetarily

daylight times is the time where you feel the joy comes in the morning and fresh air of hope and you see that you can go through the tough times without understand why is it there for you. Also it is a time of reaping, you will see how every aspects of your life get in line and becoming one fine line that you can walk on it and jump on it.

Men’s Life Cycle has to endure the best of both times to understand truly what life is. I know that when I am in my low time, I want to fly higher till I forget how low I am. When I am in sad, I want to be happy. When I am worries I know that I have assurance that my life is safe and time is the one that makes me see it. When I am sick I know I want to be healed through times and love.

I can never say enough how I love the life that is bestow upon me, once I understand this I am ready to fight to get out of my darkness and reach the light. Have Faith for Greater Glory!

Never Never Give Up On Life! Learn From Your Down Time and Get Up Again! Be Awesome !Enjoy The Process and Celebrate The Event …Your Internet Buddy, Dee Ferdinand

While every woman dreams a great wedding day. Man dreams of having the six abs that makes him looks like the next mr. universe. If you have been busy with your 9 to 5 day job and have got no time to do your own exercise why not doing it the Jorge way. He has shown how everybody with busy and hectic schedule can live a life like a gym fanatics. I can’t talk much about exercise and all that but I do love doing my own kind of 8 minutes in the morning using his technique and concept. and also really careful on my diet using a few food combining method. See him on this video share some of the awesome technique and secret.

Here is Jorge Cruise at Tyra Banks show:
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It is unlikely to see that someone would schedule jump to be a routine. Unless you are in your gym and following like a body combat class then the question is this “If you knew that with jumping you can change your life will you do it?”.

In Basketball jumping is part of the game, if you don’t know how to jump then don’t expect to even think about being in the game. It is how the game played but I am talking not the air jump of michael jordan although we know how legendary that is and how MJ life has been changed over time.

If you live your life through jumping and it is your passion. You just love to jump, then hear the story of Chris Bryant “A Car Jumper”. Read the rest of this entry

I love Movies. I know some of us can learn a great deal about life from these great narrated motion capture.

This month has been my craziest month, particularly watching movie in my country is way cheap if compare
to another country. And my country “Indonesia” has also some privilege to be the first screening worldwide for some hot movies like Hancock (where I did my review on it).

I can not say how each movie do give me a simple message that we all can be entertained to. Movie is a media to convey message and to inform certain targeted audience.

Here’s my comedy movie review up to mid 2008, if you miss some of the movie. Buy the original DVD and watch it over and over again. It is always worth to buy some of the great movies, I hope I can give you the guide here and you won’t waste your money with buying crap movie. Oh one more thing if you happen to want save money, why not rent a movie? That way is cheaper than buying the DVD.

DVD has more features and longer version try to buy the uncut, unedited, uncensored of any DVD that I want you to really have. Seriously there is rating system in each country if you don’t get any of the scene. Don’t get upset.. just enjoy

My Must Watch Comedy movies:
1. Kungfu Panda ( Great story, Awesome Cast and Must Buy DVD especially if you’ve got kids)

2. Get Smart ( Ok Story, Awesome Cast and not really buy DVD is okay)

3. Hancock ( Great Story, Message and Also more deleted scenes in DVD, must buy is the best seller and if you have been will’s big fans like I am then it’s a choice)

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I got a lot of bad review about the new will smith’s movie a heroic figurine called “Hancock”.
But I always want to watch movie with bad review but got big budgeted. so I decided to go watch it tonight.

What’s interesting no one knows why the title is called Hancock but if you quick enough then you must have heard a big insurance company called “John Hancock“. Okay this movie is not about insurance but I think the message about this movie is more important than how you want to see the end. After the Iron Man and Incredible Hulk, Hancock can be a let down if you wished your superhero to play another sequel or trilogy.

Do check out the trailer here from the movie itself:

I do think that will smith is the right person to play this character other guy could be nicholas cage or edward norton. But will has proved himself that he is identical to heroine character. Interesting to see that
he did not show as a stable person emotionally and always try to get away with booze or pet (if you still remember the move ” I am Legend”).

The morale of the story is simple “Anyone can make a change from a bad start”. From a drunken, irresponsible, careless, and selfish personality. Hancock has made himself a bad reputation from time to time. He forgot his true purpose as a Hero he needs to maintain stability and also not bring another problem
to the town which is Los Angeles.

I could say more that Hancock is a person who realize his potential but got attitude problem or he is running away from being responsible for his own life and just care on how things are done on him. Until he met a PR for himself who believed in him and taught him to be a better person. He still deals with insecurities in himself not knowing what his true purpose, where he got his power and what is his past has made him a confusing personality.

Interesting enough Hancock reflects our inner potential. We may not have superhero power but we are all here with a purpose, and responsibility to take charge of our destiny. Your destiny can bring positive or negative impact to people surround you. Hancock did realize that he need help, that’s where the new outlook and new vision of him started to take place.

I do want to say that our life journey if seems meaningless, we need to find the real goals and purpose in our life. Hancock found out the truth on who is and his bigger purpose after a few struggle. Is not even easy for him after all the bad things but he can end it nicely to write a new history and live a life full of purpose.

The other thing is that at the end he is being unselfish and aim for bigger purpose and sacrifice the one that he truly care. Can you guess what it is ? I do hate to spoil the rest of the movies but I do suggest if you don’t catch it at your nearest cinema. Hire or Buy the DVD, I am sure you will be entertained much.

If you happen to browse the J. Hancock site then you will find this interesting mission statement here

“At John Hancock, we are here to help you plan for your future so you can realize your promises. Created as a life insurance company, John Hancock has since broadened its products and services to become a leading provider of financial services, delivering the products you need to create the future you desire.”

Hancock the movie show that one person can create the future his desire by making massive and extreme change in his life. And even he can do it alone… you need people to help you reach that. I hope people in John hancock realize this I am bringing some traffic to them ( my main purpose is to share you the moral of the movie)

The original title of this video interview called “The Donald Interviews the Kids”

Two kids from previous marriage with Ivana Trump has created 2 amazing next business man and business woman. I love the apprentice show, I tried to find the interview where both the Donald’s kids were being interviewed on how they were raised. They are not the Hilton or any rich kid spoiled. I like what Donald has to teach his kids to inherit his legacy and his big empire. It requires the right kind of the people.

I am watching which I think the fifth season of Apprentice in California, Los Angeles. The first episode was very interesting as there is no trump tower only the mansion and the team that loses stay in tent. It is like the battle of status and dignity.

Anyway.. I do want to show how Donald also being interviewed by his kids about choosing project and his judgement can effect the result.

And the next video how Donald interview the kids asking their opinions what makes them who they are and how they are managed to be such a great business minds. I do like the idea that Donald has a way in teaching the kids not to be spoiled and ask them to grow and stretch a lot without using the advantage.

The Donald Interview The Kids

Two counder of Google Sergey Brin and Larry Page share inside the google machine, the technology about search pattern, philanthropic google foundation, the company’s dedication to innovation and people happiness. Interesting concept of the worlds’ best search engine.

It’s amazing how to see the google users from all  around the world are mapped in a ray of light from 3D Globe. That’s what they see when we are using the google service

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Have we ever thought “Why We Do What We Do in Life?”

Interestingly enough we do something because we give meaning to something and focus on to it. What happens in our life today because of the decisions in our past. We set our course to make our future like today.

Often times, we all feel we did something in our life and achieved it but still feeling unsatisfied, why is that? Is because we don’t really give meaning to something. That’s what happen by the terms taking things for granted.

We need to contribute more in order to make our life much more meaningful, we have to do something that we love or passionate about, then we see it is more meaningful once we achieve it.

I like to share two videos one is a very important 8 elements of success that I want you to see it. I know we all love to be success in every aspects of our life.

The 8 important elements are:
1. Passion
2. Work
3. Practice
4. Focus
5. Push
6. Serving
7. Idea
8. Persist

These simple 8 steps are what makes the road to success is even more achievable.
I want to share this powerful 3 minutes video and 21 minutes of talk by Anthony Robbins whom reminds me of the lessons that I took through one of his training.

Video #1 Richard St. John - 8 Secrets of Success

Video #2 - Anthony Robbins “Why Do What We Do & How To Make It Better”

Enjoy these 2 awesome videos

It’s interesting to see how one guy called Joshua Klein is a famous hacker and writer.
He is very much into observing crow bird and what’s more fascinating how he found that crow brain
really take into learning process. It’s going to be a really interesting finding to anyone who likes
to see that if animal can learn to take benefit of the surroundings.

Joshua invented a vending machine for crow. What the heck. Yeah, now crow can have fun. not only
Human. Should not we adapt better if crows can? Crows are not just surviving their surroundings but also conquer it.

He said nothing is impossible to make crows can do something useful and I like that he did quoted that and he found out how crows actually evolved with human surrounding.
More excerpt here: Joshua Klein on the intelligence of crows

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