Why Be Difference is Important?

Simple, coz’ you are a unique being. Being unique it does take a courage. Why would I think of that?
see if you don’t like who you are, you are always being driven by other people opinion.
Having a courage to know your weakness and your strength it is what it takes to be unique.

Imagine this .. if you want to have a recognition from a certain social group but you look up to them, and thinking what does it take for me to be accepted in the group? I have had experience that I went to a high social class group, I did not have the branded and all of the stuff that defines to be in the group. I just came of being who I am, know who I am and what I can contribute to them. I started to show them who I am and what’s my intention. I know if I was being rejected, at least I try.

At the end, I ended up being friend and quite close and I realize that they got all the beneficial facilities but inside of them are secure being. In other say that they are already unique before joining a group. They can be in any social group class and bring himself to be accepted in any class of social levels. Interesting isn’t?

I know some of us always look up, but I also have another trivia “why don’t you look down”. Help others who are in need. When big disaster came like hurricane Katrina, tsunami, flooded, or things that are out of our control then you will find that everyone is the same and when you think your social status can define and make you in better position when in time of crisis, then I hate to say this “It does not being recognized in times of trouble”.

Back in 2007, inĀ  Jakarta we had 80% of water flooded our city, I learned a great deal of lessons your money can only be used to help other people. Make a little difference if you are non victim, but if you are victim then your money, your car, house means nothing to flood. Disaster does not pick its victim based on social class or what you did in the past. So what is left is only you and your personality. Interesting right?

Other thing when you helped someone less fortunate, it does not need that you will be in certain social class. You just have to reach out with what you have and willing to do. Let’s make a difference world today and help others. I love giving and contribute to people’s life and make difference. I realized that my life would be no meaning if only for personal gratification. Love yourself then love other people, means discover who you are and help others.

Start helping others from little things, you never know what will makes up of them

Have an awesome and blessed weekend